Do you remember that old school dating rule that you had to wait three days before reaching back out to someone you were interested in after your first date?
It went something like this: a call or text on the first day… too eager. Contact after 2 days seems planned. Naturally, the third day is the optimal time to reconnect if you want to see your date again.
Right? Well, not so much anymore. Dating has evolved since the three-day rule was the norm. With online dating and the ease of swiping left or right in a dating app, there’s no time to wait—and, truthfully, why would you?
The demands of day-to-day life, a career, and kids fill most people’s days. So if there’s someone you want to get to know better, why make them wait days to find out more?
Today, I’m talking with Jaime Bernstein and Callie Harris, founders of the Three Day Rule Washington D.C. office. Three Day Rule is a luxury, high touch matchmaking company that offers customized and personalized matchmaking services. Together, Jaime and Callie have helped thousands of people find meaningful relationships, engagements, and marriages.
Both Jamie and Callie have had frequent television and radio appearances including Good Morning Washington, Good Day DC, Great Day DC, Fab Fit Fun, NPR, and in Washingtonian Magazine.
Listen to the full episode to hear:
- Why a sense of humor is one of the most important elements of matchmaking
- How to determine what is ideal—and not ideal—about a potential date and where you can compromise when putting yourself into the dating scene
- Why your future might look different from your past—and how to shift your mindset to new possibilities
Learn more about Jaime and Callie:
- threedayrule.com
- threedayrule.com/matchmakers/jaime
- threedayrule.com/matchmaking/callie
- Instagram @matchedbyjaime
- Instagram @matchedbycallie
Learn more about Tracey:
- Tracey Coates – Homepage
- Instagram: @iamtraceycoates
- time4mom.com